Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Chemo Cocktails with a Friend


Chemo Cocktails with a Friend

I have a new friend.  Our daughters are in the same preschool classroom.  I met her at the schools Halloween party, three days before my mastectomy.  We are both teachers, so we chatted a bit about that.  She is a few years younger than me.  We had enough in common that maybe we would become friends.  Then about a month later she sends me a message.  She was talking to the girls’ teacher and it turns out we have way more in common that I thought.  She was just diagnosed with breast cancer.  Although I barely knew her, it felt like someone punched me in the gut.  I felt so sad for her knowing exactly what she was going through.  We immediately connected and our stories continue to be shockingly similar.  We have the same oncologist and radiation oncologist.  We have the exact same diagnosis and are receiving the same treatment.  She is also part of the same clinical trial that I am participating in.  She is one month behind me in terms of diagnosis and treatments.  We even have chemo on the same days!  It has been really nice to have someone else to talk with and share stories with. 

Looking on the Bright Side…the doctors have coordinated our schedules for us so it makes it easy to get together and chat over (chemo) cocktails, even if we are hooked up to our big clunky machines. 

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