Thursday, February 28, 2013

Life Lessons You Probably Don't Need

I have learned a few lessons this week.  I know that’s probably why you read this blog, so I can share my wisdom with you.  Well I don’t disappoint.  Actually, you may not find these lessons to be very practical but I’ll share them anyway…

Eyebrows and eyelashes are an important part of your face – I kept my eyebrows and eyelashes for about the first 11 weeks of chemo.  Now, they are leaving my face and it is not a good look!  I thought it would be tough to pull off the ‘no hair on my head’ look, and it is.  However, when you add the loss of eyebrows and eyelashes it’s really a lost cause.  Now I have a new dilemma.  While adding makeup like a brow pencil and mascara do help a lot, the result is more hair loss.  These lashes and brows are barely hanging on as it is and I don’t want to risk losing any more.  Attached is a link to a website that has celebrities with their eyebrows photoshopped off, it pretty funny.  Remember they still have their hair and eyelashes, so it is not as dramatic as my look but you get the idea.  If Justin Bieber can’t pull it off…I mean, come on we all know that’s a pretty kid.  http://FunnyOrDie.com/m/61xn

My bald head gets A LOT of looks – I am very comfortable in my house without any head covering.  My family is also very comfortable with it.  My neighbors have seen my naked head, but other than that when I go out I cover it.  Well, I was out shopping with Coen this week and had on my big winter coat and a knit hat on my head.  As I’m shopping I start to get really hot, but I was not about to take off my hat.  Fast forward 10 more minutes and my head feels like it’s on fire!  I am now considering taking off my hat.  Fast forward 10 more minutes we are almost finished shopping and I can’t take it any more so I take my hat off.  Ahhhh, that feels so much better.  I figure I am a confident enough woman to walk around (for the few minutes we have left at the store) without something covering my head.  Plus, what are the chances I am going to run into someone I know?  I thought maybe Coen would say something about it, but he doesn’t.  I knew I would get some looks, but yeah, I got a lot of looks.  I also had 7-8 different workers ask me if I needed any help finding something.  I guess I look like the type of person who needs a lot of assistance.  Okay, we are ready to check out.  Maybe I am not as confident as I thought I was, my hairless head and I are ready to go back to the comfort of home.  Now, guess what happens?  The obvious.  I see someone I know.  Of course this is happening.  We chat and I feel the need to explain why I have nothing covering my head.  She waves it off as not a big deal, although she will probably have some explaining to do.  I have a feeling her two young daughters might have some questions!

Having cancer does not mean weight loss – I have been holding on to a ‘looking on the bright side’ joke that at least having cancer means I will lose a few pounds.  Not the case.  I have actually gained a couple pounds.  Seriously?!?!  Cancer can be so cruel.

Looking on the Bright Side…next time I go shopping and need some help, I know how to get it!

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