Friday, February 15, 2013

A Valentine Surprise

A Valentine Surprise

This year Valentine’s Day fell on a Thursday and Thursdays are my chemo days.  Not exactly the most romantic dreamy way to spend the day, but I really didn’t think too much about it.  I have been feeling really well all week so my mood was good regardless of the not so ideal situation.  I got the kids off to the babysitter with the valentines for their daycare friends and sitter.  I got Brinley’s valentines together for her school friends and teachers as she was having a school party.  I got Coen’s valentines together for his school friends and teachers as he was also having a party.  I got the other babysitter’s valentine card and candy together and I had a box of chocolates ready for the chemo nurses.  The kids made valentines for family out of town and those were in the mail already.  The kids have been working hard on all these valentine’s for the last two weeks and I was very happy to finally get them all out of the house!  Valentine’s Day is exhausting and this year I don’t even have my dragonfly classroom party to worry about, although I miss all my students so much!

Anyway, mid-morning the doorbell rings and I have a surprise gift.  A box of chocolate covered strawberries from Edible Arrangements.  So yummy.  I was so excited and touched that Jeff sent that.  Then in the afternoon I head off to the cancer center for chemo.  I go to check in and I’m chatting with the lady behind the counter.  When I go to sit down and wait, I catch a glimpse of a super handsome man out of the corner of my eye.  I do a double take and I think it kind of looks like Jeff back there in the chemo part of the hospital.  Wait a minute!  It is Jeff!  I was shocked!  At first I was nervous wondering why he was here…does he know something I don’t know?  Did they call him here because something is wrong?  I know he went to work this morning.  I immediately go to him and give him a huge hug and ask him what he’s doing here.  I’m so surprised and happy and worried.  He’s smiling, that’s a good sign.  Then I remember the huge box of chocolates I am carrying for the nurses and remember it is Valentine’s Day.  He came here to be with me for Valentine’s Day!!!  I notice that one of the chemo chairs have balloons next to it and a chocolate heart cake and a bottle of milk!  He is so amazing!  I couldn’t help it, I started to cry.  He is the most incredible man and I love him so much!  I could have never imagined a Valentine’s Day with cancer, at the hospital, getting chemo.  I definitely never imagined that it would be one of the best Valentine’s Day of my life!
Looking on the Bright Side…as I write these blog posts I realize that I have been crying a lot.  I cry when I’m sad, happy, shocked, surprised, etc.  I guess that’s another cancer perk, I am allowed to be super emotional and people aren’t going to judge.  BTW – I might be crying a bit as I write this, I can’t help myself!

 
My Sweet Love

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